When To Start Baby Food: Signs of Readiness & Tips for Getting Started

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Babies are deeply intuitive. They’re so in tune with us that their hearts can synchronize to ours when we walk in the room, and studies show they possess an innate understanding physics and can tell how much we want things based on the effort we put into getting them.

It’s not so surprising, then, that they’re are also pretty intelligent about knowing when it’s time to start solids . . . and all we have to do is pick up their cues.

In this post we’ll dive into developmental signs of readiness to look for, plus tips for getting started. First, though, I want to mention that although I’ve co-authored this article with nutritionist Hillary Bennetts, it is purely for educational purposes and not medical advice. Now that we’ve got that out of the way, let’s dive in.

Baby girl eating in high chair

What are some signs of readiness?

When possible, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends “exclusive breastfeeding for about 6 months, followed by continued breastfeeding as complementary foods are introduced, with continuation of breastfeeding for 1 year or longer as mutually desired by mother and infant.” (1)

Of course, six months is just a guideline, and each little one develops at his or her own pace. In terms of developmental cues, baby might be ready for you to start introducing solid foods when he or she:

  • Can sit upright well without support
  • Has lost the tongue-thrust reflex (doesn’t automatically push solids out of the mouth with the tongue)
  • Has good head control (not bobbing or nodding)
  • Is willing and able to chew (even if he or she does not yet have teeth)
  • Is developing a pincer grasp (picks up food or other objects between thumb and forefinger)
  • Is interested in food and is eager to participate in mealtime (may intently watch others eat, lean into food, or try to grab food off of your plate)
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5 Tips for Introducing Baby Food

When your little one starts to show an interest in starting solids, here are some tips to help set you both up for success:

1. Create A Comfortable Environment

Let your baby experience different mealtime arrangements. Some like to sit in their own high chair while others may be more comfortable starting out in someone’s lap.

No matter where your little one ends up, remember that things can get messy. So keep your sense of humor handy and prepare for things to get messy at times. An old shower curtain under the table can make cleanup a little easier.

2. Take It slow

Introduce one food at a time and watch for signs of a possible food sensitivity or allergic reaction such as a rash, runny nose, diarrhea, or diaper rash. Most pediatricians recommend waiting 3-5 days between new foods in order to be able to pinpoint the cause.

3. Watch for choking hazards

If not pureed, start with foods that are mashed or large enough to hold. Test the texture yourself to be sure it can be easily mashed in the mouth, and offer foods that are at least as long as your pinky finger. Cut small round foods in half, or break them up a bit yourself first.

4. Skip the honey until baby’s first birthday

Pediatricians recommend waiting until baby is a year old before introducing honey due to risk of botulism. (Don’t let this scare you out of eating honey yourself, our bodies are equipped to handle these bacteria after we turn a year old.)

5. Keep it fun and interesting

Remember that when starting out, solids are really just for fun. Think of them as a complimentary food to breast milk or formula, which are baby’s primary source of nutrition for the first year. Just offer a variety of foods to allow baby to experience different tastes, textures, and smells.

So, which first foods are best, and how should I feed them?

Now that you have a better sense of when, you’re probably wondering which first foods are best and how to introduce them. Should it be pureed sweet potato or baby cereal… or maybe soft finger foods, pureed meat and mashed avocado? And what’s the deal with common allergenic foods like peanut – some experts say to avoid them, while others say they should be introduced early to reduce the risk of developing food allergies.

There’s a lot to talk about, and we’ll be covering it all in the next post!

Sources

1. American Academy of Pediatrics (2012) Breastfeeding and the Use of Human Milk

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About HEATHER

Heather is a holistic health educator, herbalist, DIYer, Lyme and mold warrior. Since founding Mommypotamus.com in 2009, Heather has been taking complicated health research and making it easy to understand. She shares tested natural recipes and herbal remedies with millions of naturally minded mamas around the world. 

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    • I’ve heard from experts in nutrition that it is better to wait to give solid food to a baby after one year old. The intestinal lining is more permeable until then so that particles of food can enter the body through the lining and can result in allergies to that particular food.

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  1. Good response. We did baby led solids around 7 months with our first, but she didn’t really eat until after a year. Now with our second we’re playing a whole new game. See, she has NEVER eaten by mouth. She is tube fed. We are working on getting her to eat by mouth, but she’s not interested. I’m struggling with how much to push her, knowing my older daughter didn’t eat solids really at this age, but also knowing she needs to be pushed in certain ways. We are doing some spoon feeding, because she is developmentally not “ready” (she can’t sit on her own and we’re still working on head control), but she doesn’t swallow much. I also am trying to figure out about adding solids to my breastmilk thru her tube. How do I even begin to figure out how much to give her? And what foods do I do? I’m thinking avocado, but not sure what else. Good to know I can rub fclo on her skin cause its too thick and gooey for her tube.

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  2. This is a thoughtfulf and well-written response to the post on Cheeseslave I read yesterday. I will admit that I was very shocked to read that WAPF recommended solids as actual nutrition sources for babies under six months. Like you, I have always seen the early months of food introduction (my kids expressed interest around 8-10 months) as explorative rather than nourishing in their intent. Breastfeeding gives me the luxurious feeling of knowing that my baby is getting plenty of nutrition while he learns about all of the new foods, tastes and texures available. When my babies self-wean is when I begin really making sure that their food contains the nutrition they need. Your take on getting iron and zinc from the soil is very intresting. The bucket of dirt is a great idea!

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  3. I have goosebumps reading this post, Heather! I was one of the people who did not sing Kumbaya when Cheeseslave first posted the article on her Facebook feed, and then brought Sally Fallon into the argument. First off, one expert’s word is not the word of the gods and should NEVER be treated as such. It does the WAPF no justice to behave in such a fashion.

    Secondly, there was no allowance made for EVERYTHING YOU DESCRIBED ABOVE! It was just “this is how it is and who are you to argue?” Um, I’m educated and informed and have done my share of reading too, plus I have three kids of my own and so that’s who I am to argue. But whatevs. I backed off and simmered silently because the confrontational thing is so 8 years ago when I was a young new mom who thought she had the answers to everything.

    So bravo. I would LOVE your permission to reblog you or quote you or something to that effect on my own blog, because you said it EXACTLY the way I didn’t have the smarts to say myself but how I feel it in my gut.

    FWIW, I really don’t believe that solids should be introduced before 8 or 9 months. My kids started on good, old fashioned Jewish chicken soup that I made myself from a whole chicken, with added veggies and savouries. I have one child who seems to not tolerate salmon (though whether that’s from the fish itself or the stuff that’s added to farmed salmon we won’t know until she’s older and we do some experimenting) but otherwise we have great eaters with a varied diet and a good sense of when they are done. I breastfed my first until almost three, the second until two and I’m still going strong at 18 months with my third. I feel confident that they are getting MANY benefits still from my breastmilk past a year, which even I can tell has evolved and adapted as they grew. And I have to say that the odd time any of them has gotten sick I’ve been so grateful for the fact that we’re still nursing, especially when they can’t tolerate or won’t eat or drink anything else. The way the whole subject of introducing solids is dealth with on the WAPF website (http://www.westonaprice.org/childrens-health/feeding-babies) really gives very little emphasis to the important of breastfeeding for PAST one year, and this is really unfortunate.

    Anyways, I’m going off course here but I want to send a HUGE thank you to you for writing this and I’m going to shout it to my social streams!

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  4. Great post! I always appreciate your research. Thank you!

    Our girl started solids a couple of weeks before she turned 6 months. We went the baby-led weaning method, but using a WAPF approach to the foods we gave her. I thought it was interesting that she really loves all the food we give her, but she would INHALE red meat. (Okay, maybe “inhale” is the wrong word. Mostly she would suck a piece of juicy beef until it was dry.) Despite the fact that I wanted to delay cord clamping (among other things), our home birth ended up in the hospital after 30 hours of labor. Turns out her umbilical cord was freakishly short and acting like a bungee cord that kept pulling her back. Thankfully I avoided surgery, but she had to be vacuumed out and the cord cut immediately or she was not coming out. I’ve often worried about her iron levels, and it makes sense that she would love to suck the blood of meat. Babies and bodies are so intelligent!

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  5. I have really enjoyed reading both CHEESESLAVE’s post and yours here, Heather. I still don’t hear the tone problem in Ann Marie’s post at all, even though so many people are up in arms about it. I suppose I read her with the best of intentions, and so that is what I heard: informative and helpful perspective. I hear you saying a lot of similar things here in your post. Ultimately I am just glad that breastfeeding moms have all these options available: other women posting about breastfeeding, other women talking about when their babies started eating solids, tips for what to expect and how to navigate these new stages in baby’s life, how to support milk production, and yes, even how to make the WAPF baby formula (a VAST improvement on any other formula option).

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  6. DS started solids when he had two teeth – that was when he was EIGHT months old! I think my in-laws were sure I was never going to give him solids… My instinct was to wait until my son had teeth, as that was nature’s way of telling me he was ready. And we started him on avocado and soft meat. Now at 2yrold, he is the most NON-picky eater I’ve met.

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  7. my brightest child is the one who refused all solids until after her first birthday — so glad i listened to her and didn’t force recommendations upon her…

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  8. I really appreciate this a lot. I had never thought of dirt before, but that is a super idea! There is a theory that hyper-cleanliness is part of the cause of super sensitive reactions to non pathogenic items (like food).

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  9. Thank you for this. My baby is six months old. We’re doing the GAPS diet for my Apraxic son, so I’ve had a lot of fear of giving food to my daughter who is currently developing typically. I think baby led weaning will make me more comfortable with the process of introducing solids. Oh, how I wish I was told this information instead of to feed my 4-month-old son rice cereal by my Pediatrician! Hindsight is 20-20…

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  10. I’ve been a die-hard wait as long as possible fan for a long time but this makes so much sense, the whole dirt connection. Thank you!

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  11. I ♥ you and feel honored to be mentioned in a blog post! I think you make some excellent points arguing the other side of that article, I especially love the stuff about dirt!

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  12. My doc suggested we start my daughter at four months. Tried. S he just wasn’t ready. We waited til she was a little older and she had a much better time.

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  13. Really, really, really the BEST article I have read on the subject. Well done, Heather! I have reshared it in a whole bunch of places. THank you for writing this!! I was involved in the other post and haven’t felt that disillusioned by the Real Food community before, so you have restored my faith 🙂

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  14. While I did do some spoon feeding (mainly yogurt with fruit purees mixed in or stocks), I think each mom gets a sense of when their kids are ready for food. For both my kids, it was between 6 and 8 months. I could tell because they wanted food and they were hungry all. the. time. Way hungrier than my boobs could satisfy. lol Moms need to trust their gut on what their kids need. Every kid is different. My “fat” baby Owen didn’t want as much food as my “skinny”, “always moving constantly” baby Evan.

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  15. Really well put-together article. I especially like how you examine all sides of the issue and didin’t just take one source and treat it as the only source. Brava! I also liked the part about dirt. I’ve always thought that some parents do their little ones a great disservice by not allowing them to explore, get dirty, etc.

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  16. I enjoyed this article, its all that I wanted to say but couldn’t find the neutral words for. I love your thought on babies getting that little extra iron and zinc from tummy time, we spend many hours playing in dirt (in our market garden) and our babies have eaten more than there fair share soil, compost and even some stuff that was on its way to a compost pile. Friends and family have always looked at us like we’re crazy and putting them in some sort of danger. Our opinion has always been that its natural for kids to do these things, how else would humans have survived this long?

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  17. Great post. I started to comment on Cheeseslave’s post but decided to stay out of the fray. Lol. I very much believe in taking cues from our babies on when they are ready to start solids. My oldest started trying to grab food off of my plate when he was 5 months old so I went ahead and started him then. My youngest (who incidentally has been the slowest of my four children to get teeth) wasn’t remotely interested in food until 8.5 months. I have fed her with a spoon (wasn’t sure how else to feed runny egg yolk and bone broth!) but she definitely lets me know when she doesn’t want any more. All of my children are a healthy weight and eat a wide variety of foods. No allergies or sensitivies. I think that there’s a danger in trying to approach solids too scientifically rather than using our God-given insincts as moms and simple common sense.

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  18. Bravo, Heather! I have updated both of my posts on the topic to include yours:

    http://nourishingourchildren.wordpress.com/2011/12/14/babys-first-foods-when-and-what/
    http://nourishingourchildren.wordpress.com/2011/12/15/what-i-learned-from-mothers-about-babys-first-foods/

    In addition, being that Nourishing Our Children is a project of the Weston A. Price Foundation, I will confer with Sally Fallon Morell and consider how the Foundation may integrate some of what has been discovered in the firestorm that erupted this week on this topic. I think it would behoove our community to reconsider some of the written literature on the topic.

    Stay tuned …. !

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    • I’m very glad to hear that Sandrine. I think that information about breastfeeding is the weakest point in the WAPF literature. I also urge the foundation to include information about milksharing, such as can be found at http://www.hm4hb.net, as giving a baby milk from another human mommy would have been more widely practiced throughout human evolution than giving babies milk of other mammals. Human milk from another woman is a better alternative than even the homemade formula recipe in NT, for those cases when a mother truly cannot breastfeed her own baby.

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  19. A dirt pot! OMG you have no idea what you’ve just done for me. My 12 month old is such a light eater. This is a god sending idea. Now I need to figure out how to incorporate this for our apartment. We have no balcony. 🙁 Maybe a sand table but put dirt in, instead. I know my husband will flip. lol

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  20. This helps things make so much sense and I wish I’d had all of this info a few years ago. One of my son’s very first foods was banana, and at some point we realized he has a reaction to it. He’s three now, and still has issues with them, although he’s gotten a bit better. Looking back, I know he was not ready for solids, I was just an eager first time mama who had no idea that it might not be the best thing for him.
    If God grants us another little one, introducing solids is one of the things we will definitely be doing differently.
    P.S. Love the dirt idea.

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  21. being a cloth diapering mama, i selfishly hoped my kids would hold off on solids for a LONG while – i wasn’t that lucky with either of them :/ but i was all about the baby led weaning because it was less work for me!!

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  22. I just bumped into your website and was curious to ask you: we are all for breastfeed babies (all the attachment parenting, wholesome food, all that jazz) Dont you think Cows milk was made for baby cows only?! I can write about the lacto companies and their false propaganda. I can talk about torture milking the cows and stealing their milk (I myself wouldnt want to be taken “captive” by the aliens to milk me forever to feed grown up Aliens). I know lots of people who are
    Lactose intolerant due to an over “use” of milk. Isn’t it true that a particular protein in milk avoid us from getting the so famous calcium from it. In fact, it depletes the bones as we consume it?
    Id love to hear your thought on it!
    Thank you.

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  23. Great post! Both my girls were “late” crawlers and walkers and their teeth didn’t come in until 7 or 8 months, so they really didn’t want food until around 9 months.Neither of them are iron deficient. We all just develop a little differently and there is no ‘one size fits all.”

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  24. Wonderful post, Heather. I’ve been following this topic with interest, including the Cheeseslave and Nourishing Our Children posts. I’m not a mom (at least not to any human babies), but I feel like this post has really put all the pieces together and is something I can recommend to others.

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  25. Jessica Savill THANK YOU for asking! It was in writing that email to you that I found it wasn’t as hard to say what I wanted as I thought it was going to be!

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  26. Kristine Winniford Ahhh, that sound like so much fun. Much better than one measly pot of dirt! I’m inspired to take it to the next level should we ever be blessed with another baby 🙂

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  27. Thank you so so much for this blog post!!! I agree with you completely and it helps me feel so much better about the community. I have been very disheartened by cheeseslave’s post and responses. And I learned something that makes sense! I never thought about dirt and iron! My kids certainly got dirty and ingested some. Thank you thank you!

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  28. Funny story, when my brother was a toddler, my mom kept him occupied at the beach a lot (we lived in hawaii). At one point she asked her ped about the fact that he sat in the sand, scooped it up, and ate it by the handful. Her ped told her only half joking that “half a cup of sand a day wouldn’t hurt him”.

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  29. With my oldest I switched from a highly recommended and esteemed pedi simply because he strongly suggested I feed my 5 month old yogurt for a stomach virus he and my husband has caught. I was the craziest thing I had heard and went against everything I thought was right. I had several criticize my decision for changing docs, this entire post rings crystal clear!! Heather I am on the hunt for the best looking soapbox for you to stand on girl!! Keep the truth forthcoming!

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  30. we just started solids last week….all the info is great! Plus the dirt! My three year old needs more iron- he loves to eat raw carrots and seems to find all the dirt he can on the floor. When the it gets to be spring and a bit warmer I think we will be having a dirt party! You are all welcome to come (youngest will be ready to rock n roll)

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  31. Bravo! Excellent post! I believe premature cord clamping combined with mixed or formula feeding is the culprit behind the need for iron. In many children I believe the research firmly supports introducing solids once the child shows ALL signs of readiness- over 6 months old, has teeth, sits up unassisted, no more tongue thrust and is interested in solids. My son showed all of these readiness signs at 6 months of age. My daughter didn’t show them until 9 months. Both did not have their cords prematurely clamped, were exclusively breastfed until beginning solids, weren’t fed anything iron-fortified and neither of them had any problems with low iron.

    I’ve done traditional foods for ten years next month. I have met many, many women who used egg yolk prepared the NT way as a first food. Too many of these women have reported egg allergies either immediately or within three years in their children. My own daughter, whom I did everything ‘right’ with and had no family history of food allergies, developed a severe egg allergy. When women in good health have birthed at home, never given antibiotics or vaccines or other medications, never given anything other than breastmilk, have no allergy history and are only using pastured eggs still have their children develop egg allergies, it’s a big red flag. It’s very telling to me that these children have very low risk of developing food allergies yet it’s happening at very alarming rates. Unfortunately, that red waving flag isn’t taken seriously by the WAPF.

    I did child led feeding and weaning with my son and it was the best decision I ever made. I discovered the concept when my daughter was about one year old and switched her over and it worked very well for us. I will use these method exclusively with any future children that I have.

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  32. Love this post (and the dirt idea)! I agree totally. Griff wasn’t really into food until 1 year old. Before that, he would eat some mashes but breastmilk was 80% of his nourishment. I was kind of getting concerned when I would compare him with other babies but I just trusted that he’d come around when he was ready. (Friends encouraged me to keep the faith that he would one day eat real food 🙂

    In terms of what he’s ready for, I look to his stool to tell me a lot. I look for well-formed stools that don’t contain food particles! If they are something else (which can definitely happen) I know that my little guy ate something that his bowel isn’t ready for yet.

    I haven’t given him much meat which is not very WAPF but he hasn’t been a huge fan of and it takes a lot of digestive “fire.” He mostly eats raw dairy for protein.

    Thanks for posting this great topic, Heather!

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  33. This was most helpful Heather. We just started adding bone broth to a bottle of expressed milk…your thoughts on this? Its a 50/50 blend of 5 or 6 ounces. Micah is one week shy of 6 months. taking it well.

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  34. My first baby I did all wrong — rice cereal at 4 months. There was much more going on than that, but BOY did we pay for it. She self-limited her diet to sweet/starchy foods (about 4 of them) around a year and it took another year+ after that to journey to GAPS and back. She’s almost 4 now and much better, but still has some picky issues. Not nearly as many as most kids, though.

    My second baby, I’d let him gnaw on carrot sticks and apple slices around 6 months for teething, he didn’t really eat them. Around 8 months I began to offer chunks of veggies cooked in stock (which he loved but did not do well with), ground beef, plain yogurt, etc. He is the least picky kid I have ever seen. He loves plain yogurt still (he’s almost 2.5), avocado, tuna, various fruits/veggies, etc. There’s very little he doesn’t like and then it’s, stuff he would prefer not to eat, but he WILL eat some if that’s what’s available.

    My third baby is now 4.5 months and I let him taste a tiny bit of FCLO recently. He wasn’t sure what to think, but he didn’t hate it (my daughter gave him water once a couple weeks ago when I wasn’t quite paying attention and he sucked at it just once, then spit it out and made a disgusted face!). He’s not very interested in food yet, anymore than he is in anything else we are doing. He’s fascinated by us and our actions in general. I honestly think that *most* parents who swear their babies really want to eat at 4 – 5 months are noticing this behavior: the baby simply wants to imitate EVERYTHING they are doing; it is not specific to food. It is not an indicator that they want to eat. I also don’t think that most of the major signs that we look towards are correct — sitting at all (including ‘supported’), an interest, etc. It’s so important to look towards proper gut development.

    I suspect my third baby’s gut is not right. I suspect something’s not right in mine currently, although I don’t know why. I’m investigating the possibility of some sort of sensitivity. It might be soy, because I’ve had chocolate more often than usual that contains a tiny amount of soy lecithin. But, I need to solve that, get rid of it, and start doing way more probiotic foods again (I usually do once a day, need to do it three times or more). He isn’t interested in solids anyway and I won’t give them to him until he’s at least 8 months and we’re past any gut issues. It’s important to me that I do whatever I can to make him healthy.

    My second, for whatever reason, LOVES to eat dirt! He constantly plays in it, licks his fingers, drops his snacks in it and eats them, etc. He’s always at my lettuce beds in the summer. I let him even though people think I am crazy. Ha. The microbes in the soil are good for him, too!

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    • I so hear you on needing to eat more probiotic rich foods. My culturing attempts come and go in bursts – sometimes it’s just hard to keep up with little ones in the house!

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  35. Fantastic post, Heather! So many people want to have one source and follow it religiously. In fact, using many resources and taking what works for you from each (if anything) is the very best way. Of course, that takes more thinking and analysis, not to mention a good store of courage and confidence. I like a lot of what WAPF says, but there is a certain element that does not jive with common sense at times.
    I always get a somewhat twisted enjoyment out of the looks I get when people see Sky playing with something “dirty” and I shrug and say, “Practice builds a strong immune system.”

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  36. I posted this comment on the cheeseslave blog post you referred to, but I’ll post here too for your input.
    HOW do you use FCLO transdermally on a baby? as in How Much? How Long? How do you keep your baby from smelling like a rotting fish?
    That last question is because I can’t imagine my husband being supportive in any way if his baby stinks of FCLO. Let’s be honest, it doesn’t smell that great to most folks on a regular American diet.

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    • Hi Sandra! Dave Wetzel, owner of the only company that makes traditionally fermented cod liver oil, gives this tip:

      “Our family includes 6 children from the age of 2 to 18 . . . The two year old boy (Basil) is the picky one. He is too young to discipline so we either hide the FCLO and Butter Oil in food or when we change his diaper we lube his buns with fclo/bo. I have seen references from the 1800’s that doctors found applying to the skin was just as effective as taking through the digestive tract. My observations would concur with the doctors studies from this period.”

      Note: Cod liver oil will stain clothing and burn eyes, so keep it out of baby’s reach! I have found that the best method is to apply it just before bedtime because it is the only time we use disposable diapers. Otherwise I have to strip oils from our cloth diapers way too often. Plus, the fishy smell is gone by morning!

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      • Ahhh, thanks!
        Ummm, is it better to use the FCLO/HVBO for this transdermal application rather than just plain FCLO?
        Does the body absorb the nutritional properties of the HVBO transdermally as well?

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  37. and btw, thank u for writing this blog post. It is really interesting considering what you’ve put here to the differences between my baby & my friends. 2 weeks younger at almost 6 months, already crawling correctly and been eating solid foods for a while. She demanded it. Meanwhile, my little one shows no interest in food and can’t sit up on her own, rollover, or do anything but push herself backwards – which frustrates her to no end. lol.

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  38. Glad to read this. I have been very frustrated with my daughter. She is hungry (nursing) ALL THE TIME, but won’t eat solids. She wants to feed herself, but she can not really get the food to her mouth. So, while she is happy attacking tiny cubes of broccoli with a serving spoon she managed to grab, she’s not really getting any food. So, I guess I should just let her play with her food and give us BOTH a break.

    She can’t have egg yolk though. She throws it up.

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  39. Heather,

    I purchased and read your book Nourished Baby in preparation for starting solids with my son. 2 questions I have regarding the 1st foods you discuss:
    1. Does it matter if you feed the chicken or beef bone broth cold or warm? I make my own broth like you describe and my chicken broth is pretty liquidy. Is this difficult to feed to baby on those small baby spoons?
    2. You mention egg yolk with shaved raw liver over the top. Once you soft boil the eggs and separate the yolk, how do you go about shaving the raw liver on top? Sorry, I’m new to this and have only recently added liver to our diet in your chili recipe.

    Thanks for your help! Starting 1st foods seems like such a daunting task but I’m learning!

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    • Hi Melissa! I’d say warm broth is ideal in aiding digestion, but if your son prefers gelled cold broth I’d say go for it. I used a spoon to feed my son the broth with no problem – they don’t have to eat a ton to get the benefit 🙂 Regarding the yolk/liver, the Weston A. Price foundation recommends freezing the liver for at least two weeks to kill any pathogens, then occasionally shaving a few bits over the yolk. It is pretty easy to grate while frozen so you can just pop it out of storage for a sec, get what you need, and then pop it right back in. Does that help?

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      • Thanks Heather! That helped! Do you think cooked liver would be beneficial as well? Maybe brown it on the stove and then puree? Daddy is pretty concerned about raw meat….

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        • You could shave it into small pieces and then lightly brown it on the stove. Keep in mind as you prepare that the proteins in overcooked meat “plasticize” around vitamins and minerals and make them unavailable for use in the body.

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          • Thanks Heather! One more question- is there an ideal time to feed baby solids such as just after breastfeeding or wait a little while between breastfeeding and solids? Would you recommend just once or twice a day with solids and gradually work up to 3 meals a day as they get closer to 1 year? (My son is 6.5 months)

          • I breastfeed on demand and then offer foods to experiment with at mealtimes. When Micah was younger and very little was making it’s way into his mouth I felt free to skip a “meal” if we were in a rush and I didn’t want him to get messy. So some days he had three “meals” and some days just one. As he expressed more interest I provided food more consistently. Now he is deeply offended if his sister gets something and he is not offered any. Ha!

          • Thanks for putting up with all my first-time-mom questions Heather! I really value your advice! I’ve tried eggs yolks and liver with my son (7 months now) and he spits them out! I tried eggs yolks about 5 different days and made it different ways- soft boiled twice, fried, and scrambled and also tried with liver on top. He does like eating homemade chicken and beef broth off a spoon. I tried mixing small pieces of egg yolk and liver in the broth and he would work the little pieces out of his mouth and swallow the broth! I did give him some avocado to suck on because we were having some at dinner and thought I’d see if he just didn’t like any solids. He sucked on the avocado some and seemed to like it but it was hard for him to hold bc so slippery so I held it. I know WAPF suggests waiting until 8 months for veggies so I was trying to wait another month for these. You also mentioned pureed meats in broth (maybe chicken). I’m debating what to do next because I like the idea of Baby Led Weaning you discussed and was not wanting to puree if not needed. Any thoughts?

          • I started with broth and soft stews. My little ones wanted to taste and knaw at that age so they’d nosh on things for awhile and then spit them out. As they got more interested in actually swallowing food I tore it into smaller pieces that they could feed themselves. Does that help?

  40. I have a ten month old and have been doing the pureed foods with him. I’m just now learning about baby lead weening and so wish I had been doing this all along. I really need some help with this. Should I still do the 4 day or so wait rule to make sure he does not have any allergies or just put a variety on his plate? Also, he has a cow and goat milk sensitivity. This has been challenging. My health has been declining and I’m weening him now from breastmilk so I can get better. I was using a goat milk powder, but he began having awful ecezema. Now we are doing coconut milk and homemade chicken broth. I really need some advice.

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    • Areta, have you looked into the GAPS protocol? Based on your description of food sensitivities, eczema and failing health I think it’s something worth looking into. You can find more at http://www.gapsdiet.com. Also, I wrote a book on feeding babies that you may find helpful. It’s not specifically written to deal with eczema/food sensitivities, etc. but it’s got a ton of good info and very healthy recipes that can usually be made without dairy if necessary. The title is Nourished Baby.

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  41. I just want to throw out there something for others to look into if they so desire… BM is low in iron. BUT BM Iron is absorbed at such a beter rate than solids, baby generally still doesn’t need iron from outside breastmilk. If i remember correctly the nubers were something like 4% absorbtion rate from cereals etc and 40-60% absorbtion rate from BM. “Fake” iron is not the same as breastmilk iron just like eating spiniach isn’t the same nutrition as a vitimin pill. The real stuff is always better processed by our bodies. So I’d say it’s perfectly designed for a different reason.

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  42. I totally agree that the iron in breastmilk is much more bioavailable, Melissa Yancer! In the article above I also talk about how the low levels protect baby from pathogenic gut bacteria that thrive on iron. I don’t think breast milk is inadequate in any way, but IMO children benefit both nutritionally and immunologically from coming into contact at an early age. Good soil contains good bacteria plus zinc and iron. I think mamas body takes this into account when she produces milk and that the two are meant to work in tandem 🙂

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  43. I think if it were me, Ty-Megan Gross, I give her probiotics, rub some FCLO on her bum, and not worry too much about the rest right now. Children’s bodies have a way of making up for these kinds of circumstances as they grow and heal. You are doing an AMAZING job and she is so blessed to have you as her mama. If I happen to think of something that will help though I’ll definitely let you know!

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  44. oh i completely agree!!! You brought up a great subject and i think the pediatrician saying “baby’s not getting what they need from breastmilk” is such a HUGE disservice to the moms and their babes. If mom has a good diet, mom and the world will provide. This artificial crap made in labs pushed to moms and babes makes me so sad… (formula, iron drops or that fortified cereal…)

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  45. Hi Kathleen Pelton! Yes, the dessicated liver from Radiant Life is very good and would definitely work. In her book Nourishing Traditions, Sally Fallon recommends the following process for preparing egg yolks: “Boil an egg for three to four minutes (longer at higher altitudes), peel away the shell, discard the white and mash up yolk with a little unrefined sea salt. (The yolk should be soft and warm, not runny.) Small amounts of grated, raw organic liver (which has been frozen 14 days) may be added to the egg yolk after 6 months. Some mothers report their babies actually prefer the yolk with the liver.” Regarding the soil I bought for my daughter, I went to our local organic garden supply shop and asked them to help me pick something out. Unfortunately I don’t remember what it was called 🙁

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  46. This article kind of blew me away. I did BLW with my son, but not with the right foods. With my next, I plan to offer foods that WAPF suggests but still take more of a BLW approach. I did not know that about iron and zinc in dirt or about molars erupting when the pancreas starts producing amylase. Or about the protective effect of low-iron breastmilk, or how the leaky gut of a newborn is so beneficial. Makes me wonder what else I don’t know.

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    • Thanks for this comment, Lisa! I’m so glad you found this info helpful. I learned a lot after my first was born, too, and have continued to learn with my second. Seems to me that you are on a very good path with BLW and WAPF 🙂

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  47. interesting. my girl is 4.5 months old and i neither she or i are ready for solid foods.

    where can i find your source about the formula-fed baby and the gut not closing properly?

    thanks!

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  48. I’ve been re-reading NT over and over again, scanning the internet and here I am again back at your site. My eldest was introduced to solids to early in my opinion (4 mo.) My mother swore she was starving and needed them so I fed her. I was nursing and supplementing since I had some milk production issues. Once she started eating she stopped the supplementing. Well now we know she is sensitive to citrus (strawberries, oranges, pineapples), tomatoes, dairy (although goat seems to be doing ok lately), chocolate, soy. Well now baby #2 is a week shy of 9 months and just started solids about 2 weeks ago. She is 100% breastfed. She started with bone broth, moved to banana. Has tried, egg yolk, avocado, blueberries, peaches, pastured chicken, sweet potato, butternut squash, apple sauce. I add coconut oil to many things. She takes CLO. BUT…it seems she is getting a prickly rash on her face and torso and sometimes a flaming red hiney. What gives. She has been having lots of BM. Is it too much fiber. Not enough probiotics? Neither kids is Vaccinated, both are home birthed. We eat a pretty clean natural diet. I’d ask the Dr but they just tell us to put a cream on the rash. Do you have any ideas or suggested reading?

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  49. I am a lactation consultant and am nursing #3. He was born with a very rare form of leukemia, which required 5 rounds of chemo beginning at 6 months of age. People say there’s not enough iron in breastmilk, but listen to this. Since chemo is a great way to kill leukemia cells, and a great way to mess up a gut; he didn’t get much food during this time. What he did get in abundance is breastmilk. His unique regimen basically wipes all the blood cells, including the iron-filled red blood cells. A typical response would be to require packed red blood cell transfusion 5-15 times during this treatment. He needed 1. He NEVER became anemic. His hemoglobin would drop to around 7.5 (other markers of iron would also drop) and with no supplementation, nothing but breastmilk, within a week or so he’d be back up to 9 or 10. Remarkable? Everyone was shocked! Except me and our lactation consultant. We know that there actually IS enough iron in there, if the baby needs it.

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      • He’s doing FanTasTIc! Thanks for asking. He was able to maintain his own ‘normal’ growth pattern during chemo with little more than breast milk and a few select supplements that protected him from the poison.

        We are now coming up on a year of remission. He continues to have normal growth and development. His first steps were a little bit delayed, but hey, his world was a 10×10 foot hospital room for 6 months…not a lot to explore there! We are actively detoxing his little body of the poison that saved his life and nourishing him with breast milk, cultured veggies and other good foods. We do have to be a bit careful about what we give him since I’m sure his gut isn’t healed yet, but he has a good repertoire.

        He is an 18 month-old hero and the light of our lives!

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    • I so agree with Christy on the iron and hemoglobin levels while breastfeeding. It is hard for me to agree 100% that the child will lack nutrient (iron) from breastmilk. My little daughter was exclusively on breastmilk till 9 months. When i went for the well-check, she was well over her iron/vitamin-d levels. The ped was surprised too. I think the child will take whatever she/he needs out of it.

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  50. This question may be TMI, but I am really wondering if this is ok/normal. My baby boy (12 months now) will have small chunks of veggies in his poo… is this to be expected? It is usually things like carrots, skin of zucchini, butternut squash, broccoli. I read your Nourished Baby book prior to starting solids and have followed your recommendations as far as starting with homemade bone broth (at 6.5 months) and then doing the baby led weaning approach. Since I did not do purees, other moms weren’t sure if this is normal since they gave purees. I haven’t noticed this issue with other foods like meats (liver, chicken, beef), fruit, egg yolks (initially didn’t tolerate egg yolks- had 2 incidents of vomiting about 1 week apart after giving egg yolks twice around 7 months. He never vomited previously with anything else. Tried egg yolks again at 11 months and no problems). Just wondering if this is normal! Thanks!

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    • Hi Melissa! Veggies tend to be a little more difficult to break down than the other foods you mentioned, so it makes sense that you might find some undigested bits. If it were me, I’d probably cook them a little longer in broth or butter for now to make them a little easier on the tummy.

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  51. I am, but I think it’s a browser issue. I switched from Firefox to Safari, and now I can load your site. Thank goodness, because I’m devouring all your posts! Thanks for getting back to me 🙂

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  52. I have been SO frustrated with baby led weaning. I have a 10 month old baby boy and he is my first. I’ve done baby led weaning from 6 months but not with the WAPF suggested foods as that part is new to me. Anyway, my son won’t swallow anything! He’ll take a bite, make the chewing movements, and after a little while open his mouth and stick out his tounge and out comes his food. And I really don’t think he has his pincer grasp down yet either. To top it all off, I’m hearing it from my mom about why he’s not eating anything, and my other friends who’s babies are BLW as well are eating everything, so in the last 4 months, I’ve caved and offered pureed foods twice. Ugh! I bought your book hoping to hear a magic answer on how to get him to actually eat something, but I guess the magic answer is to be patient and continue to let him figure it out. I don’t know. However, I’m happy to have found your website though, you have a ton of great information!

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    • My son did the same thing, Jenny! He wanted to explore flavors but wasn’t really interested in eating until well after his first birthday. I took it as a compliment that my milk was very nourishing 🙂

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  53. Oh my goodness! Thank you so much! My son just turned five months old, and everyone is freaking out that I haven’t given him “real” food yet. He’s perfectly healthy and seems interested in food, but honestly, I just haven’t known where to start! Allowing him to feed himself makes so much sense to me–as does the reassurance that he’s getting plenty of good stuff from me still. Thank you!

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  54. I love this! I never pushed for my kids to eat “at the RIGHT time” and I always got ‘the look’ from people. Come on – as IF I’d let my kids starve! This is such great information.

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  55. Jessica Kirsch, I’m on baby #5 and with ALL of them we have started food when we see certain cues: eg. Baby has some teeth, can sit up alone and can use fingers pretty well. That’s has fallen around the 8th month mark. Then its only veggies, not cereals. None of my kids have a single allergy, no skin problems, no diapers rashes and not a single ear infection. I think it pays to move “slowly”, as others would put it!

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  56. I found this post; thank you for it! I’m a breastfeeding mom, and follow WAPF for our family’s diet as best as I can with a tight budget. My son is 6.5 months old. I started feeding him a little bit of beef broth, egg yolk, and very slightly browned liver at 6 mo. He would eat a little of the broth and yolk at first, never crazy about the liver. And in the past few days he just refuses it. What I’ve read about iron deficiencies, etc in WAPF literature made me worried, and I tried really hard to get him eat at least a few bites at his little “mealtime”. I got frustrated with him too, because I felt he HAD to have some supplementation. And then I felt like a bad mom. This post made me feel a lot better! I’m gonna give the little guy a break, and see in a week if he wants some. If he doesn’t, it WILL be ok, and will just wait. Praying I didn’t cause his little gut any harm with my overzealousness. Just want what’s best for my sweetie!

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  57. About the raw liver, I know I shouldn’t be concerned about giving raw meat to a baby, but it still worries me in the back of my mind. It’s been beat into our heads that raw meat makes you sick. Is there anything you could tell me to help put my mind more at ease about this? Thanks!!!

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  58. Hi Heather, Wonderful article!! My question may have been answered already… What would you say if a one year old’s iron levels are on the low side. She is being breastfed and is eating iron rich foods. Not sure if slightly low iron levels are a big concern or not. Thank you!!

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  59. I love the dirt idea! I filled a little pot with some potting soil (all I have right now) and let my 10 month old play with it. She was so curious and really liked it. I wanted to ask how do I ensure it’s the best dirt possible? (haha, funny question!) It’s says it’s all natural compost stuff so is that good? What do you recommend? 🙂 Thanks in advance.

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  60. HELP! i messed up, big time. I came here looking to find some good recipes for my 10 month old, because, surprise surprise, she is refusing food. Probably because i was shoveling food in her face with a spoon franticly so she could get the iron she needed 😉

    Do you have any suggestions to help her get back on track? How much SHOULD she be eating right now?She pretty much eats on her own, and, i dont give her many grains or carbs, but she has stopped eating veggies..I dont know how to help her like them again. So in the meantime, i blend them up and spoon feed them to her when she is distracted. She loves avocado. thats pretty much all she eats. I am going to be purchasing your book soon.

    I just want to do whats best for her and i feel i messed up, royally.

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    • Hi Colleen,
      I have a 13 month old and believe me, food has been a big stressor for me. I want everything that goes in her to be perfectly healthy. But I have learned that her body knows what she wants. I would say trust your baby. If she doesn’t feel like veggies one week don’t force it. My rule is I always offer it and if she gets in a rut of eating the same thing over and over again I try to get creative and think of new things to offer her. Also remember that she is just 10 months old and will be developing her likes and dislikes overtime. Just because she doesn’t want a veggie today doesn’t mean she will be a veggie hater for life. You are doing a great job! Our bodies are strong and bounce back quickly from any harm done when corrections are made. Your baby is healthy and well and lucky to have you as her mama!

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  61. “Many babies worry that their baby or child isn’t eating enough.”

    I’m sorry but when i see errors like this and knowing that this supposedly has been peer reviewed by Anne Marie i wonder if it’s really true

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  62. also, the baby weaning method you are suggesting….i have always wondered, wouldn’t that be encouraging food wasting? because they do waste a lot of food if you let them feed themselves with hands, what do you suggest teaching them to feed themselves while teaching them food is so precious that we should not waste it?

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  63. @Joyce Thanks for finding the typo! Fixed! I don’t know why you would assume that any blog post here has been peer reviewed by any other blogger. This simply isn’t the case. We do not submit blog posts to anyone prior to publishing for peer review unless it is has been sponsored by a brand we know and trust.

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  64. I loved the article, thank you. I have a question – when is the right age to start feeding the dirt to the baby? Is it too late to “feed” it to 4yo? 🙂
    My children have multiple food allergies and we are following GAPS diet, but I was thinking if there is something else could be done.

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  65. i know this is an older article — but what type of broth do you make? is it a regular broth recipe with carrots/celery onion and garlic and thyme ? or is it simply bones and water?
    i guess i am asking because so far we have not introduced any of those other foods – wondering if that made a difference in micha’s first food?
    thanks in advance! love your work!

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  66. I would like obtain to use the above image of gut permeability for a poster presentation and article in my hospital publication.
    Thank you!

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  67. This maybe a stupid question, but my almost 6 month old had a couple of bits of carrot that was cooked in broth in the crockpot, but pooped out one of those bits whole. Should I be worried that another little piece may have slipped out of his little leaky gut? Should I worry he might become allergic to carrots? Sorry I’m a first time mom and have no clue what I’m doing when it comes to baby led weaning! 🙂

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    • I personally wouldn’t be worried if that was the only digestive issue I observed. Babies often pass things through whole because their little digestive systems aren’t efficient at breaking them down yet. I understand your concern that a smaller undigested amount would pass through. Based on what I’ve read, it’s possible, but it’s not necessarily a sign of dysfunction IMO. Of course, I’m not a doctor and this is not medical advice. I’m just a mom sharing my experience – all of my kids had pieces of random stuff come through undigested from time to time 🙂

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  68. Great article! Thank you!
    My baby is 4.5 months old. At her 4 month doctor appointment her doctor said to start supplementing iron. I’ve read about open gut and was very concerned about introducing iron before 6 mo. My baby is exclusively breastfed. She was born small (5.3 lbs) via c-section. So unfortunately, no delayed cord clamping. On top of those to things I’m anemic. I’ve been searching for information on whither it’s better to introduce iron early, although there is a reason for breast milk to be low in iron, my baby most likely hasn’t been getting enough iron (the little bit which is usually in breast milk) due to my anemia. I would be interested if you found any additional information about supplementing iron in a situation as mine. I haven’t supplemented any iron yet. I’m so back and forth (lesser of the two evils…disrupt the open gut or go without having (enough) iron which is important for brain development). I also haven’t been able to find a good iron supplement without all the additives. 🙁

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  69. So in addition to allowing the babies to play in dirt, what other alternatives would you suggest for iron supplementing?

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  70. HELP! So my baby is on donated breast milk (cant feed due to cancer) and our supply is diminishing… What should i do!! My baby is almost 4 months old, so i thought we would introduce 1 or 2 bottles of either raw goats milk, bone broth or formula daily to save about 1.4L of milk a week so she can be on the golden liquid for longer, I am torn… I dont want to seal the gut with bone broth as i want the antibodies to go through but i am not really keen on formula (as I detest anything processed for myself -cancer fears) ahhh but i dont know how goats milk affects the gut… Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!!

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  71. After reading about the benefits, it makes so much sense to me to start with bone broth for my 6 month old. And she seems to enjoy it for the most part. She does not like it mixed with breast milk, though. I got a pasture-raised stew hen at the Farmers Market and I’m currently making chicken stock with it. Can I give her the chicken stock made with the whole stew hen (not much meat) or should I make a separate bone broth for my baby when I’m done making the stock?

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  72. Hello and Thank you for such an interesting article. We just went to pediatrician for our baby’s 4 month check up and we were told we can start introducing mashed food by spoon, such as sweet potatoe bananas peas etc. I thought that was a cute look to have baby eating now, but have not made it yet (as I write I have the sweet potatoe in the kitchen waiting and string at the blender).. But we really want to have our baby eat the way with hands, touching and exploring it, the one you described as well. And I thought this is first when baby is around 6-8 month, when he has teeth to use. I only do breast feed and he seems happy with it. He looks at what we eat but when we let him touch it, he does not go for the mouth, he lets it go. I am thinking a bucket of dirt is a great idea and then go make the sweet potato for my husband and I instead till baby is ready to eat the BLW way. I am hoping you will reply. Thank you many times again for this post. We are all about the natural way here as well, Thank you for doing such a great research.

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  73. I forgot to add my second question in the previous message I wrote, here it goes:
    What do you do when vegetarian? (Which we are). Thank you very much

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  74. Thanks for your post, my little lady is 7 months and we are just getting ready to start solids. I am used to being taught 1 food at a time and 4 days in between new foods so I am wondering if I need to make a new batch of broth to start her on. I normally make mine in a traditional way with other veggies added to the pot with the bonesand cooked for 24-48 hours before straining. Should I make a broth with only chicken for her to start on?

    Thanks,
    Heather

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  75. Hi Heather!

    Any knowledge or advice on pre-term babies and low iron at 9 months? Our baby was 4 weeks early, lost enough blood before the emergency cesarean to warrant 2 blood transfusions. I exclusively breast fed her until 6 months and have since introduced solids, infant probiotic but at her 7 1/2 month developmental follow up the nutritionist at the children’s hospital suggested our pediatrician test for iron levels after I told her I would not be giving her fortified baby cereals. We go to a holistic pediatrican and her level was 10.4 and he suggested supplementing. I did not and added bone broth plus ground beef to her solids. Last week at 9 months, I had her re-tested and she her iron dropped from 10.4 to 9.2 and this was measured via a toe prick, not a full draw. I’m still very tentative about supplementing her with a multi+iron. Zarbee’s sounded like a decent alternative to the Enamel Poly v Sol recommendation, but it does have Grapefruitseed extract. Any thoughts? Thank you!!

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  76. Hi Heather. My 8 months old daughter is not taking grated raw liver even mixed with other meals like egg or banana. I take desiccated liver from Vital Proteins and I am wondering if I could open the capsules and pour some of this liver on my daughter’s food. I am just not sure how safe is that. Thanks

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  77. Hi Heather,
    We have our first baby – now is 7 months old. It is a boy. We are following both with my wife the diet and food habits as described by WAPF. He is exclusively breast fed. Till 6 months he was gaining weight according to the average standards in EU- we are from Bulgaria. But during the last month he is gaing between 120-200 grams per month which is lees than the average. His height is OK – 68 cm. Both with my wife are not very tall. Our baby is still not very interested in food – he still has not lost the tongue reflex. My question is – should we be worried for the weight and force him to eat food or be more relaxed till he alone starts to be able to eat? We have introduced the egg yol- at least what he can eat, we started with lamb meat and bone broth. I just want to hear your opinion as a mother.

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  78. Hi Heather! I just started spoon feeding my six month old broth tonight and it went super well. But I’m wondering how long you would recommend doing the broth before moving onto to other foods and more solid solids? Like how long does it take to seal the gut?

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    • I have the same question about how long should I feed my infant (7.5 month old) bone broth in order to seal his leaky gut. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated!

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